The First Day of Kindergarten

Happy Father's Day

God blessed us with this man.

Gymnastics Recital

Isabel has been dutifully reporting to gymnastics all year and has had so much fun. She was quite timid each time she practiced 'In the middle of an Island' at home and did not want us to watch. Therefore, I was a bit nervous about how she would react when she saw that she was on stage but it went great. We are so proud.

Teacher's Gifts - Decoupaged Clip Boards

Seeing as the year is coming to a close, we wanted to give the teachers a special gift. One that I hope they can actually use or at least find pretty to look at so I did some searching for some great ideas. I searched my favorite design, craft and idea blogs and let Isabel choose. She choose this idea from Design Mom. Luckily, there was also a tutorial on Michael's.com.

Since her school is nature based, we looked for school/nature themed paper. I hope you enjoy the photos. Isabel also made a card for each teacher expressing her love for them with words and a thousand hearts.

THANK YOU TEACHERS!

By way of Boston - The Freedom Trail

I already had Boston on my mind as we are going there in 2 weeks and then came the latest edition of Family Fun magazine and it happened to have a very long article about The Freedom Trail. Now my kids are a bit younger so we have done and enjoy the usual for the preschool set: Harbor Tours, Children's Museum, New England Aquarium, Public Garden Park: the sweet bronze ducks from the book "Make way for ducklings" and the Swan Boats. They are great activities for many ages but you really should take a look at this article if you children are say 8 and up. What an educational and fun opportunity. They even recommend some books to read prior to your trip.

What are some of your favorite family memories or place to visit in Boston?

Jon & Kate Plus 8 - Your Thoughts

Along with 10 million others, I tuned into to watch the season premiere of Jon & Kate Plus 8. Not because I wanted to have a front row seat to the scandal but because I have watched from the beginning. I spent 73 minutes watching a painfully sad event and I do not think I will be watching again. Why? here is enough negativity on TV shows/news etc. and that is one show I watched to smile and enjoy. At any rate, I found 2 posts I thought I would share and wonder what you, if anything, wish to add. Will you continue to watch?

First up: Dr, Michelle Golland, a relationship expert:

A relationship expert's advice to Jon and Kate: practice what you promised at your recommitment ceremony.
Dr. Michelle Golland: I have worked with enough couples and heard enough stories to know when I am witnessing the downward spiral of negativity and criticism, and the descent into divorce. I am sad to say that too many couples find themselves in this situation. Unfortunately, this is what I have seen with Jon and Kate.
With all the hoopla and commentary surrounding Jon and Kate's life, I decided to immerse myself in their marriage -- or at least, in what we see of it on TV. I went into the archives to hear them answer questions about their thoughts on marriage, how they met, etc.... I listened to the wedding vows they each wrote for wedding number one, and I watched the recently televised Hawaiian renewal of their vows.
What I would say to Jon and Kate starts with the two things I tell all couples who come to see me:
1) I am going to fight harder for your marriage than you are, because you have lost perspective and are living in an unconscious marriage.
2) I will tell you what I think and you may not like it very much. There will be times when each of you don't like me, or don't like what I am saying to you.
What I try to do with my clients is help them live in a Mindful Marriage. This is a marriage where you fully understand each other's history -- the good, the bad, and the ugly -- and you are each working for the betterment of the other. This is not easy, and it can take a lot of work to achieve this level of connection and understanding, but it is well worth it for you as an individual, a couple, and as a family.
I would like to truly try to help Jon and Kate by understanding how their marriage has run off the road and into the swamp of disappointment, resentment, and anger. I have read all the stories about Kate's criticism and controlling manner (and of course, her famous hair), but I see Kate as a victim of her own unconscious drives that have overrun her, her husband, and her family. I have also read the opinions of those who think Jon needs to "man up."
Jon and Kate married at the age of 22 and 24, respectively. They both have seemed to focus on this age difference as significant, although in reality it is not that large at all. So begins the setup for Kate to claim that she is the responsible one in the relationship, while Jon gets to play the part of the fun jokester. She is the parent, while he stays the child.
In Jon's original wedding vows, he thanks Kate for "accepting" him for who he is and believing in him. He promises to be her "provider." Kate talks about his free spirit and the joy that gives her. As any of you who watch the show know, Kate rarely likes his free spirit, doesn't accept him for who he is, and probably doesn't believe in him much anymore.
This is a sad reality, but what I think most impacts their marriage are Jon's unfulfilled dreams. He himself shares that he really never had the chance to find a career path, thus he hasn't fulfilled his "provider" role that was so important to him. He has become Kate's reluctant sidekick, while she has found her passion and her career as a celebrity, author, and mentor for other mothers. By allowing Kate's career to take over the family, Jon has lost the space to develop a separate sense of himself as a man, father, or husband. He is only defined by those around him.
In the renewal of their vows, Kate said, "I promise to love you more, speak more gently, and be more respectful and sensitive to your needs." Excellent, Kate -- but now comes the hard part: actually doing what we say. In the promo for the first show of the fifth season, I could see the depression oozing from Jon and the fear Kate has of losing the show and her lucrative and fulfilling career.
She thinks it's great that Jon can stay home with the kids and get paid for it. He does not, and when he tried to share his feelings about it, Kate cut him off and "told" him what he feels. Being sensitive to her husband's needs would instead entail seeing how this show and her own difficulty in allowing Jon to be himself is going to help usher in the end of their marriage.
Jon is not innocent in all this. He has been quietly and passive-aggressively colluding with this setup, because for a while, it worked. It allowed him to avoid looking at himself and his lack of career or accomplishments. It helped him numb out to his feelings of failure, but as we have witnessed, his coping skills are now ineffective and it is the dawn of a new day.
So here is my advice. Jon: stop rolling your eyes and stop backing down to Kate. This is not the time to have an adolescent rebellion, but to have a real shift into who you are and who you want to be in this life. Provide for your family; get to know yourself and your passions. Stand up and be the man you know you can be.
Kate: realize your controlling coping skills were very helpful and necessary as a mother dealing with eight infants and very little help. Your life has changed, however. The landscape has evolved, and your ways of coping are now damaging those around you. You have found your passion. Go forward with it, but free Jon to become who he needs and wants to be.
As a relationship expert, I believe we come together as couples to heal, challenge, and understand our past, create our best future, and become our most fulfilled selves. I truly believe -- whether there has been infidelity or not -- that Jon and Kate have the opportunity to make their marriage work. They need professional help and time to heal the wounds of the past and create the mindful marriage I hope they both desire. I wish them courage, self-reflection, and hope during this very public challenging time.

Mom Logic: http://www.momlogic.com/2009/05/jon_and_kate_expert_divorce.php?adid=052709_jon_kate

Creative Writing?

Mr. D washed, peeled and chopped the carrots as instructed by his wife via an email. She is ill, in bed for the second day, and hoping that a large bowl of carrot-apple soup will cure her. Their sweet five year old is giving her dolls a bath while the handsome three year old is enjoying his afternoon slumber. What is mom doing in bed? planning, learning, coughing, scheming, dreaming, smiling, coughing, again and realizing that she has succumbed to her heightened senses at this moment. Could this be the result of too little rest and being sautéed like onions in the Florida sun for 7 days? Is she the unlucky recipient of a fellow flyers germ? What I am writing about? I do not know, I think my fever is back.

What is in my chest and Tweet Up in RI

I am lying here, blogging in bed. I am wondering what it is that has me sick. Fever on and off, chest hurts badly, coughing, no head involvement. The rest of the family is at the Garden Market Fair choosing the vegetables for our garden. I know, we are a bit behind but we are getting there. On another topic, I am super excited about an event I just registered for called 'The Twitter Phenomenon explodes in Rhode Island'. Are you going? Thank you to 'The Daily Blonde' for tweeting about it.

Soda Crates

It looks as if I need to take a drive to some Pottery Barn stores. I just saw that pottery barn was to sell these online and guess what? They are all gone! Any of you have contacts and can have these sent to me? Gosh, as a kid I could have gotten tons of these for free.

Our Fancy Nancy Party

We had a very fun weekend celebrating Isabel's 5th birthday! We started with a Fancy Nancy themed party on Saturday. We made some cute Martha Stewart Pink Pom-poms for the playroom and went all out making a fancy table in the dining room including little pots with mini pom-poms and butterflies. She was so excited and picked out her ensemble. She also help choose her menu for the day. It consisted of: heart and star shaped ham and pb&j sandwiches, baby carrots and hummus, olives, goldfish, grapes and cheese sticks. Oh, and fizzy pink lemonade.

The cake: Isabel requested a bottom of chocolate and top of vanilla. She wanted some pink and fancy stuff so this was our creation.

Her party began with some free play time while we greeted parents, followed by some fancy nancy coloring pages and mazes. We then decorated some jewelry boxes with 'gems'. I had painted the rim pink and written a their names in glitter glue earlier in the week. The funniest thing was that Isabel asked me 'Mommy, why did you scribble on all of the jewelry boxes?'. I looked at them and realized that I had written in cursive-so funny!! Since everyone was hungry early, we ate lunch and then went outside to read some fancy nancy books. Daddy then took the girls on treasure hunts in the backyard for a while. We played with bubbles, took photos of each girl with Isabel and then opened gifts. Ben had his buddy Hudson over and they spent lots of time playing cars, trains and making bubbles for the girls to chase.

Happy Birthday my sweet fancy girl.

Uptown Office

I am inspired. I have had a vision of my office for years now and this sums it up: painting my desk white, a colorful rug and bolder color on the wall. I have had a great blue chosen but have not yet taken the plunge.

My baby girl is 5!

Easter 2009: Great Chocolate Cake, Food & Fun

One of my greatest memories of Easter is how my paternal grandparents, I mean bunny, would hide 2 baskets for each of us in her house. I always knew that when I had kids, I would continue that tradition as it was so exciting for my sister and I to try to figure out where the baskets could be AND what would be in them. Here is what my children found (behind chairs, under tables and the bubbles on their place setting in the dining room) this year and we had so much fun watching them hunt.

Aren't my first attempt at royal icing cookies cute?

After looking at all of the treasures, we went and got dressed. The kids wanted us to try to dress alike so yellow shirts and jeans for the boys and pinks for the girls.

Finally, Isabel and I made a chocolate cake the day before and were quite proud of it, too bad the lighting was not better.

Love food? Come to my food blog, Savor The Thyme . By the way, I am entering this cake into the Easter Cake Bake 2009 at A Slice of Cherry Pie.

Countdown to her Birthday - Richard Scarry style

Isabel has been so excited about reaching this milestone (5 years old!) that she was asking me numerous times a day 'how many days mommy?' and 'Is that a long time?'. So, I decided we needed to make a calendar to assist in visualization and to give her something to be excited about everyday we got closer. Don't you love the Richard Scarry characters?

A necessity

I need this. I do, I can feel it in my bones. I am going to dream about it. Which color? both! that is what I was thinking.

Here comes Peter Cottontail

Color me some Easter Eggs

After opening the first box of egg coloring to find it was empty, I found myself reassuring the children that we would color eggs today and we did. They loved it. By the way, remember to buy white eggs not 2 cartons of brown eggs.

Ready for the Egg Hunt

Our two little bunnies were very excited to go to a friend's house for an Easter Egg Hunt. I will post more pictures from the hunt this week.

Pick my nose

Attention: I am hoping that these cups are well stocked at the huge surprise birthday party that will be thrown for me in December. Yes, hint to all of you.

A reminder about a positive attitude

Back in the day (pre-children), I worked in the pharmaceutical corporate world and often interacted with a lovely woman who always had a smile, a bounce in her step and was eager to assist. So it came to no surprise when this lovely lady started pursuing her passion of personal coaching. We have spent quite a bit of time together in the past few months and I can honestly say I look forward to her posts as they are well written reminders of how our positive visions, goals and attitude are important and offer unlimited opportunities. Please take some time to read at 'A place to learn and develop yourself.'

Love in Newport

This past weekend we went to Newport for Newport Restaurant Week (read more about it here) and some fun. After nibbling, we went to the beach and enjoyed the scenery.

Trish for Target

While flipping through the newest edition of InStyle magazine, this photo caught my eye. It is a new limited edition line for Target from their 'Design for All' series featuring Miss Trish. Wouldn't these look sweet with a nice manicure?

Monkey and Coffee

I must be craving coffee as I just posted about donuts below and now this picture of Ben at a Dunkin Donuts. We had such a good time spending an hour reading books (and yes, ate a donut) before we had to pick Bel up from school. Ben just wanted to look a books while I read magazines and then after a bit, I would read to him. This brand new 3 year old does not usually stay on a task that long. Does that mean he is growing up? NO, don't say that.

Time to make the Donuts

I am salivating. Yes, I know, you should not chew your toys but would you blame your kids for sticking these in their mouths? Adorable.

Tweet Tweet! 7 Useful Twitter Tips

I know, I know, I have already posted about a million great things about twitter but it seems endless. Check out this short yet super informative article from geeksugar.

Pingg evites from Martha Stewart

Did you all see what Design Mom found? She always posts about the best and most creative things in the world, well, at least in America. Don't know what Pingg is? They have very elegant, classy, fabulous free evites.

Bride's Party: Part II

Curious about part II? Head over the Savor The Thyme and enjoy.

Hugging not choking

Isabel loves to take pictures all the time like Mommy (she is always seeing me take pics of food for my food blog and them for fun) so she asked Ben and I to pose today. The photos crack me up because he was having a blast but it looks like I am choking him.

Big Boy Bed for Ben

Can you feel the excitement?

Tea Towels

I love pretty hand & tea towels-they actually make me smile while doing all the wonderfully mundane household tasks and these fit the bill. I can't wait to dry my clean hands on them.

My little reader

Yes, I must brag. I realize that all of us have super smart kids that are 'above average'. So, while at the book store 2 days ago, I spotted this great collection of sight word books by Innovative Kids and bought the 'pre-reader' set. I have spent a little time yesterday and today and my daughter now can identify/read at least a dozen words and we have put little sentences together with them. So much fun and I am so proud.

Eating your Words - A Challenge

Have you seen the challenge I have going on at Savor The Thyme? Check it out and get your creative juices flowing.

Basically, it is a fun contest using food or drink to spell or write! I had so much fun writing in pancake batter that I could only imagine what others could come up with. You have until March 6th so get in the kitchen!

Valentine's Day Love

We went 5 star this year and dined out at Applebee's on Valentine's Day.

Mud Play

This is what happens the first day of a thaw.

All Bride's Party: Part I

A lovely friend of mine hosted a 'bride's party' Saturday night. The concept was that all of us Mommy's would shimmy ourselves into our original wedding gowns and have a lovely dinner and share stories/photos. Before I share more about the evening, I will share the pre-event. It was very sweet to get all dressed up again but this time have our children watching me. They were so excited and thought Mommy was a princess in her gown and fancy jewelry.